The role of women was known for always in the back of the man. Even from a young girl have been conditioned to perform the role according to her gender, the role is of course largely determined by the cultural aspects of the area where he lives and lives. Women are considered more appropriate role as a second man or men behind the scenes.

There’s even a mention that the woman as someone who has many responsibilities, but do not have authority. All were supported assumptions and stereotypes about women are wrong. Some wrong assumptions or stereotypes or negative is wrong for a woman who can prevent the appearance of women as leaders are:

1. She was sensitive and soft, means is that women are conditioned to be more sensitive than men. The different treatment was derived from the view that the future of women is to be the nanny. But in the modern era this is very different, because 75% of women prefer to be independent and a career.

2. Women more concerned about other people, the intention is that women not only as a creature believed to be a sensitive and gentle, but also there is the demand that women play with a sense of his sensitivity and gentleness to treat other people. are of concern for others is an essential human character, but the condition of the woman prefers gender as being more required to have this property. Otherwise if this trait evolved in man too then this would be considered a sissy.

3. Women are expected to have slender appearance, and can look pretty neat, the intention is that the women in this century, given the criteria that can display the body slimness, beauty and art of dress. Only a few women who can meet these criteria either because of financial constraints or because the bone structures that are less supportive, This can happen if women continue to experience feelings of discontent against the appearance and will cause long stress if they failed to satisfy his appearance. On the other hand, this will only lead to pressure on women leaders in an attempt to break into the normal environment dominated by men, which neatly dressed men regarded women as an effort to seek attention. So this will only lead to competition rather than a friendship, because he felt intimidated.

4. Women feel the world as a scary place. The intention is that so many reports of violence in women ranging from harassment to sexual coercion. Since a child a woman is always given the impression that they are not safe in this world, so that the message coming out is that they should consider themselves weak and dependent. Of course caution is very sensible, but women should be guided and trained to be able to handle the situation rather than cause weak and dependent assumptions.

5. Women need men to protect him, because the women are often taught that women and men need the opposite sex as a couple, where the men placed as a protector and a search of money, whereas women are the people who took care of all his needs. This is based on the stereotype that women are weak and the figure can’t protect them-selves. Therefore this assumption eventually, cause of many women who are dependent on men.

You busy in the work world makes it difficult to find time to have fun. Or, because he was happy-happy to work, you chose to not seek a lover first. Do not have a partner that is a choice or not, actually back to you. You know, what’s really going on so that you master the job yourself?

1. “I do not have time for dating”

Young workers say that work can’t make them have the time to relax or to meet the right partner. You must consciously put the job number one priority. Or maybe because you think you achieve a brilliant career in the world of work is much easier than looking for a partner that you dream dreams. The solution is to Balance a job with personal life. You certainly will not get the career you want if not try the job right? Same with looking for a partner, you will not get it if you do not try as hard as your dedication to the job. Make priorities and goals as well for finding your future spouse. For example, how much time you need for your personal life in one week.

2. “My boss knows I’m single, and use”

Those who live an average single requested to work overtime, traveling for business purposes, and accept the decision at the last time, because they are considered not to have the need to gather with family.

The solution: Increase your commitment in private life. If your boss asks to work late into the night, you do not have to always take it. Give a reason if you already have other plans that are important. It’s good to dedicate them-selves to work beyond your working hours, but make sure your personal life is not excluded.

3. “The man I know the average is married and has a spouse”

Maybe it had something to do with the job. Because statistics show that 50 percent of married couples find their dates in the workplace. So maybe you’re not lucky if you do not have a workplace that allows you to meet with the opposite sex who is still single. Or, which allows you to go out with one of them.

The solution: Find out how to find other single men. After all, the workplace is only one option to get a pair. Active in associations or clubs, try to visit a new restaurant, a concert-do with friends, or continuing education, also will give you the opportunity to meet new people.

4. “There is no man who wants a date with you

Ladies, do not be so desperate, dong. But indeed, there is the type of work that may be made to re-think the opposite sex for dating you. Suppose you were a psychologist. Who can resist if you continue to get a psychological analysis of her partner? or an Accountant who is always serious and too calculated in terms of moneys.

The solution: If you have a job that makes you far marginalized or criteria in the list of ideal potential partner, do not be discouraged immediately. Way, keep the impression that your personality is the same as your job. Stay away from topics of conversation about your work, until you are sure that your partner is ready.