The older women would bored to receive a question like “When are married?” Feeling pressured by circumstances, there is often a woman in a hurry to find a partner. But they realize rush attitude like this can create regret?
Increasingly flamboyant divorce cases in many countries and Indonesia. The difference principle, infidelity, until domestic violence (domestic violence) is often the reason for the divorce.
But apparently to avoid the scorn of people around, most of the women make the mistake of choosing companions who meet the requirements for others, not for you. Good for others is not necessarily good for the woman.
Anne Milford, author of “How to Marry the Wrong Guy: A Guide for Avoiding the Biggest Mistake of Your Life” gives some important points to why women undergo a marriage is wrong and how to terminate before it’s too late.
Milford said that three of 10 women will admit that they had made “mistakes” before and after the wedding vows. The reason is that makes a woman insisted on maintaining a relationship and in a hurry to make a bond?
1. All my friends have been married
When my friends have risen to around the aisle, most women think he should soon follow. The reason for delaying marriage is invalid and women in a hurry to get married or find a partner for those who are still single.
Many women are in a hurry to get married because of the deadline. They are more observant when it should be before deciding to end the single because marriage is something sacred.
2. Courtship is too long
Many women admit that the reason they stay in a relationship with the environment related to family, friends, and people around. Courtship is too long can result in a relationship is not good. Could have been one of them feeling bored with this relationship, but can not be separated because they are already familiar with the family of the couple. When in fact their relationship was not healthy, it’s just that they decided to stay married because urge people around.
3. Shame to divorce
Divorced or widowed women are considered as making people who fail in relationships. Most women would feel embarrassed if a divorce and decided to maintain a relationship with her husband who might already unhealthy. Even this is often more protracted especially when the woman became a people oppressed.
If it is in this position, many women try to maintain a relationship for the sake of self-esteem and their children. Divorced or not, it is the decision of each spouse. But think is best for you and your children.
Think back to when in a hurry to get married. Do you already feel comfortable with your partner?